Book of YOU

You want to know who you are so that you can move fully into your highest expression without doubt.

·       How is it usually done in my industry?

Writing: Critical, time pressured, fitting into a box

Personal growth: talk therapy, overlooking inner wisdom, not body/somatic centered, binary – pppl are good or bad never both. Life is hard without reason or resolution

·       How has this been done traditionally / historically? (What’s worked / not worked about that?)

Bc there is no focus on the self only the surface is the focus and the core wisdom is only occasionally, and perhaps never reached which matters because it’s like painting the house when the foundation requires support.

·       How do others offer what I’m offering?

There is a focus upon outcome, rather than truth.

·       How do I do it in a more nuanced, rich, deep, fun, engaging or effective way for MY people?

I get to the base-line foundation of who you are meant to be. The mending you want to do. The creations your soul desires, look at the blocks and realign. You are not broken. You have been provided with the fuel required to alchemize your biggest life.

·       Why is my way essential for my people?

Because unless you get down into the unconscious building blocks you are only painting the house AND your carrying around generations of baggage and limited ideas without ever knowing who you really are. It’s why we are still struggling to resolve historical, societal aggressions – putting all of your energy into blaming others or the system, does not help break unconscious blocks around saying edgy, important things. Blaming the system does not help you know more about why you continue to choose the wrong guy or gal to date, it does not help you understand the value of knowing what you truly enjoy in life rather than what you were taught you should enjoy. It does not give you clear vision to what job you are truly meant to do – what food you like to eat, what your body truly physically enjoys when unproscibed by someone else. It doesn’t tell you what sex you like or even what your body feels like when you are happy. These are things you must slow down to understand. You must find your truest alignment to know. You must trust yourself to stand in and speak up for. You have to love yourself even in the face of others discomfort. You have to be wiling to know you are worth leaving behind so that you can find your people, your next true thing, the life you’re waiting for. You must trust that the bigger thing has got options for you beyond this small set of options you call reality.

It is right there that you begin to reclaim yourself and heal generational wounds. It takes time to find your alignment and step by step it comes. As it does, you change your reality trusting that the things you let go will be replaced by more aligned options. In doing so, you no longer cling to the things you were told you had to take or that were “good” or “safe” but to a reality that is true to you. The you beyond who you thought you were to who you really are, and that is when you heal the past and step into the present. You step into your life and its largest possibility. I want to help you see who you are. I want to help you let go of past scarce belief systems. I want to help you step into your greatest possibility.

??stop painting your house and get your renovation on – stop living in someone else’s past and open to the possibility of YOUR greatest future.

There are two important things to knowing who you are – it’s reclaiming who you are – your voice, your backbone, your sex, your expression, your ability to love, your sight and your healthy connection to ancestry. You have to understand what is you and what is not. What is imprinted robot knowledge and what is deep inner wisdom. You have to reclaim your appreciation for and ability to be feminine – dark, alchemical, slow, nourishing, powerful and create a healthy masculine for YOURSELF – this is not about other people. And the second is an ability to let go of what does not serve you – through somatic healing, writing, yoga and other practices. You have to be committed to this. To break the constrictions, the unconscious spells of the past and find YOU. [add from your class book copy for the other classes here]

·       What matters about my approach?

It’s time to shed the past, open up to true potential and connection with life and truly live into why you came to this planet.

Hi, I’m Jenny Lewis

and I’m living proof that you can find freedom

without waiting for “white people” to change.

It is possible.

After 8 years experience working in the field of self-development

I’ve learned that the most important thing about having a life I choose that is creative and free

Does not begin with activism, going to marches or taking down the man

It’s focusing on YOU. Your value does not come from other people’s measurement of you – it comes from your measurement of yourself. It comes from your ability to connect with the gift you came to bring and to value and cultivate it. It comes from your ability to create a community that supports your unique expression and brilliance. It comes not from domination but from resonance. From your ability to connect with your truth and open your voice again. It comes from your ability to open your heart – healing your relationship from the past. It comes from your ability to open your sexual expression and creativity without shame or limitation.

It’s changing your ideas about money should be made, changing that  power is domination and perfection is all that there is.

So the next time you think about changing your job, speaking up for yourself, standing up for your kids, tethering yourself to the grind to make that next car payment – you know that your world will not end if you do something new.

The unconscious programming that has you freeze or run there is ancient. And while it might destroy your life to be the man or woman who speaks against freely it will NOT end you.

It will simply end the old – lineage driven patterns of safety which hold you and many others hostage in a world that is begging for change.

If you don’t do it the old way, you allow yourself to hone the skills to bring forward something new.

This is not easy work. No! But it is your freedom. It is the place where you get to see who YOU really are and feel the power of life move you, support you, teach you and love you. It is where you get to see what freedom means.

Because the unconscious spells of the past have held you hostage for too long. Do not let them sabotage your future.

It is time for you to come forward and take your rightful place. Moving and growing and learning untethered from imaginary limitations.

It is time for you begin your path to freedom.

And real talk? Because ______________________________.

[the edgy thing they really need to hear.]

That’s why I’ve created _______________________________.

[program name]

Because I’m here for _________________________________

[client type]

having _______________________________________________

[the thing they want]

without ______________________________________________.

[the thing that’s in the way]

Ready? Let’s do this.

When I left the big New York law firm life 10 years ago, I moved to L.A. thinking I’d become a successful coach and spend my time by the beach with my friends, I thought that would be the end of my journey and I’d live happily ever after. Little did I know, two years later and having invested most of my life savings into my self-development and business-development, I was called to Birmingham, Alabama, and there at the beginning of the covid season, with little fame, fanfare or fortune, I would really begin the deepest healing work of my life. It could be called healing my lineage, but really it was soul reclamation. I reclaimed the pieces of myself in the very environment where I lost them. It felt like the journey into Dante’s realms of Hell. Grieving and learning and grieving again until I hit bottom. Healing the traumas of sex of loosing my voice of loosing my identity. With every drop, a new revelation would come until I trusted myself in the depths not to die there and slowly built the muscle to know I could come up again. That is the letting go. I wrote books and began teaching classes that I created from my reading and from the depths of my personal lessons. All the while, the big picture lesson I was being taught was that a successful life is not about fancy things – it is about the courage to heal, the strength to get up again, the heart to forgive, the reclamation of wholeness, the discernment of humility and the support of community. These things are foundational. Not at all my mind’s idea of the success I sought out and though I’d have in L.A., but something much deeper, requiring a devotion to myself and a faith in the larger brilliance of life leading me home. [list of IAM’s] From here I am not better than anyone else, instead I am really, really good with me  - even as I try and “fail” and try and learn again and again – I am loved by me and interestingly by those who love me. You have to know yourself then when you speak truth you know that how it lands with others is about them and you.

My books, coaching and art projects are all pathways home to wholeness. They help people remember who they are and allow them to discover who they are not because there in alignment is brilliance support and love.