When you work with me…
My coaching focuses on the foundation of who you really are. The mending you want to do. The creations your soul desires, and together we look at the blocks and realign. You are not broken. You have been provided with the fuel required to alchemize your biggest life.
Unless you get down into the unconscious building blocks you are changing a facade rather than changing your life and continuing to carry around generations of baggage and limited ideas without ever knowing who you really are.
This is why we are still struggling to resolve historical, societal aggressions – putting all of our energy into blaming others or the system does not heal unconscious blocks around saying edgy, important things. Blaming the system does not help you know more about why you continue to choose the wrong partner or friends. It does not help you understand the value of knowing what you truly enjoy in life rather than what you were taught you should enjoy. It does not give you clear vision to what job you are truly meant to do – what food you like to eat, what your body truly physically enjoys when unproscribed by someone else. It doesn’t tell you what sex you like or even what your body feels like when you are happy. These are things you must slow down to understand. You must find your truest alignment to know. You must trust yourself to stand in and speak up for. You have to love yourself even in the face of others discomfort. You have to be wiling to know you are worth leaving aspects of your life behind so that you can find your people, your next true thing, the life you’re waiting for. You must trust that the bigger thing has got options for you beyond limited set of options which are an old reality.
It is right there that you begin to reclaim yourself and heal. It takes time to find your alignment and step by step it comes. As it does, you change your reality trusting that the things you let go will be replaced by more aligned options. In doing so, you no longer cling to the things you were told you had to do because they were “good” or “safe” but to a reality that is true to you and begin to trust a bigger way of brilliance. The you beyond who you, and that is when you heal the past and step into the present. You step into your life and its largest possibility. I want to help you see who you are. I want to help you let go of past scarce belief systems. I want to help you step into your greatest possibility.
There are two important things to knowing who you are – it’s reclaiming who you are – your voice, your backbone, your sex, your expression, your ability to love, your sight and your healthy connection to ancestry. You have to understand what is you and what is not. What is imprinted robotic, spell-inducing, matrix-feeding programming and what is deep inner wisdom. You have to reclaim your appreciation for and ability to be feminine – dark, alchemical, slow, nourishing, powerful and create a healthy masculine supportive, strong, penetrative, structured - for YOURSELF – this is not about other people.
The second thing is an ability to let go of what does not serve you – through somatic healing, writing, yoga and other practices. You have to be committed to this. To break the constrictions, the unconscious spells of the past can be scary and it takes time AND you find YOU.